

This blog is a place for wives, girlfriends, significant others, and anyone else stuck to a chef to come together and chirp to each other about how to deal with the nonsense that goes along with being the wife of a chef. I was struggling to live with a ghost of a husband who I never saw until I met two other chefs' wives that saved me. It was then that I realized there must be more who need love and support too, right? Hilary, First Lady Desperate Chefs'Wives instagram @hilarya25
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Saturday, May 2, 2009
Zagat Winner!

Saturday, April 25, 2009
Spring Giveaway!

Zagat.com has much more than restaurant reviews and searches. The site (which is mobile phone enabled for all you Blackberry and iPhone addicts) boasts discussion boards, nightspot, hotel and attraction guides, as well as menus and virtual tours.
I would eat burritos for the rest of my life. Shredded chicken, black beans, tomatoes, sour cream, cilantro, and hot sauce wrapped in a grilled flour tortilla. I'm go glad I grew up in
Good Luck!
DCW_NYC
-Hilary-
Friday, March 6, 2009
And the Winner Is..
86 My Husband. The challenges of being a chef's wife.
I love it!! The use of kitchen lingo that only DCW's (and chefs themselves) know is great!
Gini, you've got until Monday to email me back with your contact information so we can get the books to you ASAP!
Thanks to random.org for supplying the random number generator. And of course Jessica Conant-Park for writing these fabulous books and giving them away.
DCW_NYC
-Hilary-
desperatechefswives@gmail.com
Friday, February 27, 2009
Contest: Win 2 Books!!

a food felon…"

-Hilary-
Friday, August 8, 2008
Chill TakeDown

Monday, May 5, 2008
In His Second Life (contest!)
Sometimes I wonder what my chef would be doing if he wasn't a chef. And I don't mean food purveyor, restaurateur, or caterer. I mean what NON FOOD job would he have? How different would my life be? Would I live in Jersey City? Would I have kids by now? Would I need a blog to vent my lonely heart to? Probably yes to the last one because if he's not dedicated in this way, he's dedicated in another.
Erik was a serious drummer starting at the sweet age of six. Upon graduating high school he would have become some kind of studio drummer. Again, working odd hours and possibly traveling. Doesn't sound much better.
Then I think about his dream job, the job that he'll never get but he thinks would make him a bad ass. According to Erik he'd want to be a spy. (I have to chuckle to myself as I write that.) And by spy he means a serious mission impossible/jason bourne/bond type of spy. Like I would marry a spy. Have you seen Mr. and Mrs. Smith? No way! But he can dream about it all he wants.
All I know is teaching and kids- it flows inside of me. If I had to do something totally not related to kids I think I would end up being some kind of personal organizer. I can organize and sort like its no body's business, but that's no fun. My bad ass dream job would be a detective. Someone also very bad ass a la Olivia Benson, Law and Order SVU. "Manhattan SVU, I need a bus!" I love that show. And yes I've been caught talking into my walkie (digital camera) asking for "backup". I think it's okay to dream about another life, another way of living that is completely different from your own.
So this contest is pretty straight forward. Leave a comment with your name/alias and email and I'll enter you to win a Desperate Chefs' Wives t shirt (medium). The comment topic comes in two parts.
- Tell me what your chef would be doing non-food related to make money.
- Tell me what your chef would be doing to fulfill his secret dreams. (totally unrealistic)
- Feel free to share your dream jobs, too!
Thanks for entering. I will pick a winner next Sunday the 11th. You'll have to respond to the email I send within 48 hours to win. Good Luck!
DCW_NY
-Hilary-
Monday, March 24, 2008
Contest Winner!
Congratulations to Minna Suh from Brooklyn, New York for winning the signed Gourmet Girl Mystery Series books by Jessica Conant Park! Minna moved to Brooklyn two and half years ago from Chicago. She works as an editorial assistant at a consumer health website. And no she's not married to a chef, but she is a part-time personal chef on top of her 9-5. Before that she had graduated from culinary school and done an internship with StarChefs.com.
Congrats, Minna! Enjoy the books!
DCW_NYC
-Hilary-
Saturday, March 8, 2008
Win 2 Books: Simmer Down and Turn Up the Heat!


Thursday, November 8, 2007
New York City's Sexiest Chef
