
This blog is a place for wives, girlfriends, significant others, and anyone else stuck to a chef to come together and chirp to each other about how to deal with the nonsense that goes along with being the wife of a chef. I was struggling to live with a ghost of a husband who I never saw until I met two other chefs' wives that saved me. It was then that I realized there must be more who need love and support too, right? Hilary, First Lady Desperate Chefs'Wives instagram @hilarya25
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Friday, April 24, 2009
Many Thanks
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-Hilary-
Saturday, January 17, 2009
One Stop Shopping
Search/Date/Marry: A girl's guide to finding, hooking, and making true love last with a chef.
Too long?
Here's a list of my favorite keywords that lead to DesperateChefsWives.com
1. most chefs burnout
2. married chef problems/lonely chefs wives/married chef issues/relationship advice for working chefs
3. single chefs
4. marrying a chef
5. perry st chef housewife-I'm not a housewife!
6. gay chefs
7. wives of chefs support group
8. my husband is a chef /alone
9. chefs in a recession
10. is mike colameco married/is david chang married?/is aaron sanchez married?/johnny iuzzini married?/is whylie dufresne married?
11. chefs and family time
12. how to take care of chef's hands
13. my husband is a chef and he's always gone
14. korean desperate for a chef
15. My favorite: its hard dating a chef.
No kidding.
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-Hilary-
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
This Isn't What I Ordered!
So this leads me into a state of curiosity. What do Erik's parents think of his profession? I know what MY parents think. My mom sweats Jean-Georges and is grateful for the opportunities he's given us. She stole the New York magazine that featured a handsome Jean-Georges flaunting a giant red lobster on his shoulder from her dentist. My father...well he thinks cooking is fine but that it doesn't matter where you work. He's tried to convince Erik to open a restaurant in small-town-Ohio. Nothing is wrong with small town-but things like "duck" and "sushi" don't even fly there.
But as far as Erik's parent's go I don't REALLY know what they think. They support him and take an interest in his cooking. But would they rather see him making more money and coming home at 5 PM? Probably not.
Have your parents or you chef's parents accepted his profession? Did he "turn out" the way they wanted him to? Better?
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-Hilary-